As Andy points out, there are usually SOME kind of path away from the tough aspects... My t-Square I mentioned above also has the Moon trining the Sun/Venus/Mercury trio... my own lovely Moon Squaring Pluto? Well there is that trine back to the Sun/Venus/Mercury trio helping me connect all the planets together.

I have Saturn/Mars conj on my descendant... and they both trine Uranus in Cancer...

So there is usually apath to something positive if you look for it


...using ideas as my map.