I did some reading on synastry planets in the houses and found a lot of positions were so accurate and these positions do have a big influence in a relationship. For example when my venus is in someone elses 7th house I feel very strongly for this person. I also realized someone elses venus being in my 12th house and that person acting or changing the way they are and lots of times this position showed up and things happend. I also see what happens when someones venus is in the 10th house it really doesn't bring anything to venus its kind of a cold position. These positions are very important and I wasn't fully aware about our planets and houses in synastry but now i know.